A few years ago, in the middle of all sorts of craziness, I started writing down
one thing per day that helped me get by: Today I made the bed. Today I walked
to the store. Today I built a super-ramp with my kid. As time went on, the things I
wrote down got more and more ridiculous: Today I sold pee. Today I pocketed free
sandwiches at a meeting for Organizing for America. Today I caught all these frogs in
the creek behind the house and I kissed all of them and dammit none of them turned
into a magic guy in tights who would save me from myself. No, none of this was any
sort of solution, but it did make me feel better in a weird sort of way. Eventually,
I wrote a story about it, and—as will happen when you share stories—people
started telling me their own, the sometimes crazy, sometimes ridiculous, sometimes
heartbreaking things they were doing to get by in these sometimes crazy, sometimes
ridiculous, sometimes heartbreaking times. Hearing these stories had a profound
affect on me: I laughed a lot, cried a little, and—most importantly—felt altogether
less alone amidst the mess. I hope that, in some small way, they might do the same
for you.
Feel free to share your own, as well.
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